To get the most out of Life, get out there and live it! The lessons you learn through EXPERIENCE will give you a practical knowing that you cannot learn in books, be taught by mentors/gurus or reason through with your friends.


Life is messy and in that mess there is greatness, beauty and a fulfilling LIFE.


Give yourself the freedom to make mistakes by making those mistakes you will LEARN and GROW! Even if it’s negative emotions you can know that within them lies the answer as to why you are experiencing them.


Are you willing to get dirty, mess up and make mistakes? If the answer is yes… you are ready to start living a fulfilling life, right now!  So get out there!


Listen to Your Dark Side

It is counterintuitive to think that your greatest breakthroughs and insights come from your dark side, fears and insecurities. Normal ways of thinking suggest to ignore, suppress and deny your inner darkness. Thoughts of anger, jealousy, hate, fear, worry, anxiety, sadness and the like are avoided in everyday life. But doing this leads to even more pain, amplified negative feelings and eventually can cause your body to get sick or experience dis-ease.

From my experience I’ve found that there is actually a wealth of knowledge, insight and information contained within the dark sides of my personality. Upon further inquiry I’ve been able to see the root of my anger, fear, frustration, jealousy, etc. and then identify it, put a name on it and start to work with it.

For example, I have found that when I am jealous, it is only because I am focused on what someone else has and what I perceive to be “missing” from my life. Instead, when I focus on what I have, who I am and the amazing opportunities that surround me, jealousy fades and joy emerges. A lack if distrust in The world also creates jealous within me. When I am rooted in the trust that all is working out for my best interest and act from that place, I see only opportunities and I know at my core that there is more than enough for everyone and I have lost nothing but someone else having something.

When you inquire and look deeper into your shadow, all kinds of reasons will come up as to why you feel the way you feel. Once you understand why you feel the way you feel it’s easier to work with the emotion, reframe it, give it an empowering meaning and as a result change your life. When your dark emotions are expressed, understood and reframed you have found the secret key that unlocks joy, happiness, abundance and freedom.

Your dark side is a great teacher. There is great love to be discovered in your shadow if you let yourself go there. Don’t spend another minute denying these great parts of yourself. Give your dark side expression. Find someone who has knowledge in these areas and ask them for help to reframe your darkness and find the light that is waiting to be revealed.

When Things Go Wrong

When things go wrong,

as they sometimes will,

When the road you’re trudging seems all uphill,

When the funds are low and the debts are high,

And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,

When care is pressing you down a bit-

Rest if you must, but don’t you quit.

Life is queer with its twists and turns,

As every one of us sometimes learns,

And many a fellow turns about

When he might have won had he stuck it out.

Don’t give up though the pace seems slow –

You may succeed with another blow.

Often the goal is nearer than

It seems to a faint and faltering man;

Often the struggler has given up

When he might have captured the victor’s cup;

And he learned too late when the night came down,

How close he was to the golden crown.

Success is failure turned inside out –

The silver tint in the clouds of doubt,

And you never can tell how close you are,

It might be near when it seems afar;

So stick to the fight when you’re hardest hit –

It’s when things seem worst that you must not quit.

Your DREAMS are counting on it!

Living your dreams takes courage, it just does. On the one hand you have your heart, your soul and your intuition nudging you in one direction. On the other hand you have your personality and your mind desiring to stay in your comfort zone.


Living life on the edge in pursuit of your dreams happens as you take action from your intuition and you stay with the fear as your mind and personality resist, cry, act fearful and want to quit.


Accept that it’s totally natural for your mind and personality to be fearful, sad, angry and unsure about listening to your intuition and heart.


Deep down you know that everything IS and WILL BE okay. But the mind doesn’t always agree with this knowing.


Stepping onto The Path and living life at your Highest Potential will challenge you to let go of the limiting beliefs that your mind is telling you about what’s possible for you and ask you to make choices and take action from a deeper place of knowing.


Take risk. Take CALCULATED risk on your heart’s behalf. Let your intuition guide you into the unknown and scary places. Instead of disaster, you will find new horizons.


Don’t ask for your intuition and heart to give you guidance on how to be safe, secure and still live your dreams. Instead, ask for the courage to truly listen to your heart and intuition and cultivate the required mental attitude to make it happen and stay calm in the middle of the unknown storm.


Your DREAMS are counting on it!

Ruffle Some Feathers

You are going to ruffle some feathers if you want to fly.

When you stand up and begin to shine, you become a target.


Shine on anyways.


Who gives a damn about the negative opinion of others. Get used to critics and “haters”. Sometimes they have really good things to say and can help you grow.


Remember that your “haters” are still watching you and are most likely your #1 fan. I heard a statistic that over 50% of Howard Stern’s audience back in the day HATED him, but tuned in to hear what he would say next. They might hate him, but who’s laughing all the way to the bank?

Let Go

There are SUPER frustrating times on The Path. Instead of fighting against frustrating times with more frustration, anger and resentment, take a higher road today.

Remember, a delay is not a denial. The world’s timing is always perfect and if something isn’t quite manifesting yet, there is a reason. So, today, instead of choosing to be angry, hurt or just plain ‘ol pissed off, take a BIG DEEP BREATH and know that everything is happening in perfect time. It might piss you off to know that it’s not happening in YOUR time, but it is happening in the perfect time.

Do what you can do that’s within your power today and let go of the rest. There’s no use letting the things you can’t control dictate your level of happiness.

So, instead of choosing frustration because you think you won’t be provided for or taken care of, choose to see the circumstance through the eyes of faith, and then relax, let it go and enjoy the rest of your day doing what you can.

We are not all powerful beings, though sometimes our ego would like us to think we are. There is also a tremendous gift in not always getting what you want. There are gentle and compassionate Hands that are guiding your life.

So instead of fighting against what you cannot control today, let go and choose to see the delay as a miracle in disguise sent by ONE who loves you, who has your best interest in mind and WHO is setting up an even greater outcome than you can now imagine.

Love is the Answer

Love is the answer

To any questions on your mind

Love is the path

To any treasure you want to find

Love is the key

To any doors you find locked

Love is the reason

To keep your heart unblocked


Ego is the motive

For all our Global fights

For when Love is absent

Darkness replaces it’s light


Without Love

All things meet certain death

Not having Love

Is like not having breath


We choke on the fights, the wars and the endless brigade 

Of our judgments, opinions and all problems man made


In the seeking of gold

And more security

Is an Ego that is thinking

There’s not enough Love here for me


So it takes and it takes and it never rests 

To ensure that no matter what and at all costs 

That it’s fragile broken heart it protects


But the Ego doesn’t know

The greatest secret of all

That Love is for free

And builds bridges over walls


Love only gives

Like the Sun’s shining rays

Love transcends Fear

And sets the Ego ablaze


Love starts within

And in a constant choice

To choose Love over

Fear’s misguided voice


So let Love in

Be courageous and strong

‘Cuz if you Trust in Love

Happiness won’t be far along!


Happy Valentines Day!